I imagine nowadays everybody knows already what it is to be and
introvert or extrovert. And also that 2/3 of the population is extrovert (or at
least falls more on that side of the spectrum).
I will overly simplify to approach the topic I want to talk
about: extroverts need things happening, interaction, high stimuli, and freak
out when they are alone or in the silence; meanwhile introverts are more sensitive
to stimuli and have a lot to do inside their heads, which gets disturbed by
real life interactions, therefore freaking out without moments of silence.
Silence: generally speaking unless you isolate yourself it
is more rare than gold.
We live in a permanent state of noise, but that's okay,
since most of the world's population likes that, or don't even notice it. But
that's an immense torture for introverts.
I propose a test, which would be very nice if a lot of
people did taking it very seriously and later share their results. Analyze,
during a whole day, the frequency of noise on their daily basis. But this way: living
normally, go to work, study, see friends, read a book, go to a park, have
breakfast at home, watch tv, whatever. Live your day normally (preferably a
week day, otherwise you might hole yourself at home on a sunny Sunday when
everybody go to a park, and you will end up having the most silent day mankind
ever experienced). It would be good to write down when a noise starts and when
it ends, as well as to identify how many are active at the same time (for
instance, one is a tv on, the second one is a dog barking on the street, the
third one is the waste collectors talking loudly to each other while picking
the garbage, a forth one is a car honking at another one on a not so distant
street), and if I would be so lucky, create a scale to measure the experienced
intensity (I.e. how loud the sound was where you stand).
It's not necessary to do the test to know that a normal day
is almost fully polluted by noise. There are very rare moments of silence
unless it's the middle of the night while everybody is asleep (and maybe that's
why I like so much to be awake during the night: to have a few hours of silence
while awake).
Now it comes the interesting part. Shall we invert that?
Make the whole world to experience the opposite, having silence almost every
hour of the day, only noise and something going on during the night, or unless
you isolate yourself in a noisy Buddhist temple, or in a farm that is more
resembling to a rave. Tell me: how long would it take until all the extroverts freak
out completely, kill themselves, develop psychological illnesses, or simple
break once and for all with reality, becoming psychotic?
I wouldn't give them a week or two. Wonder why so many
introverts are depressed or suffer from mental disorders? Why would that be,
right?
Have you felt chronic pain? I broke a ligament about ten
years ago and every time the weather gets too humid or the temperature drops
quickly I feel a somehow small amount of pain. But that usually lasts for a few
days. A few days feeling a bit more than a bit of pain. It ruins my mood. I get
a bit sad, get irritable, can't concentrate, etc. Just a few days, and not any
serious pain or anything. Now imagine this constant nuisance that the noise is,
often not so low, during YOUR ENTIRE LIFE. Who wouldn't go crazy?
It's impossible to live a silent life without isolating
yourself, but it's possible to drastically reduce the noise. You might think it
isn't, but compare the silent environment (or what approaches that) that is the
capital of Germany , to the
chaos that is the surroundings of Gare du Nord in Paris ,
to the city center or the neighborhood of Azenha in my city, Porto Alegre .
While a device that allows you to go deaf better than our
eyelids allows us to go blind isn't invented, exercise your empathy, think
about the minority (not that much minority) that lives in constant suffering,
and try to reduce the noises you produce.
Posted by Ricardo Ceratti.
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